Young adults in Delaware who age out of the foster care system and choose to enter the State’s Independent Living Program can receive assistance in the form of rent vouchers, now until the age of 23. They must find housing and either attend school or be employed in order to...

Young adults in Delaware who age out of the foster care system and choose to enter the State’s Independent Living Program can receive assistance in the form of rent vouchers, now until the age of 23. They must find housing and either attend school or be employed in order to...

ILYA is excited to share that State legislation to expand transitional and independent living services to young adults aging out of the foster care system up to the age of 23 has passed! House Bill 271 was signed by Governor Carney on May 2nd and expands services beyond the age...

Recently, Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) was thrilled to share that the Furniture Barn run by residents at Cokesbury Village (including some First U members and friends) had generously agreed to offer to our youth access to the excess furniture their residents can no longer use. This was a...

A Pilot Partnership with the Cokesbury Retirement Community For the past two years, after the Catholic Charities Thrift Center closed due to COVID, ILYA has only been able to make available to our young adults, who have aged out of foster care, furniture that was offered from time to time...

Our First U mission calls us to fight injustice and transform the world through loving action and we are meeting this intention head on. Our three official Social Justice Task Forces are the way we, as a congregation, are focusing on this mission. All are outward focused and involve members...

Thanks to all who tuned in to the February 13th service that reflected on the ways that serving occurs in the Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) program at First U. We hope that you feel more connected to and proud of the important work of this wonderful social justice...

Second Sunday is here! It’s the perfect time to celebrate and reflect on how ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) at First U is making a difference by hearing directly from some of our youth, interviewed by Rev. Larry. For 17 years, ILYA has assisted young adults as they navigate...

Second Sunday is right around the corner on Valentine’s Day weekend, February 13th. It’s the perfect time to celebrate ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) at First U! For 17 years, ILYA has assisted young adults as they navigate their new life after foster care. Year-round projects such as New...

As we look ahead to February, we are reminded that Second Sunday is right around the corner on Valentine’s Day weekend, February 13th. It’s the perfect time to celebrate ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) at First U! Did you know that the ILYA Program has assisted young adults as...

First U’s ILYA Program (Independent Living for Young Adults) has been serving youth and young adults aging out of the foster care system in New Castle County since 2005. More recently, new partnerships have allowed us to expand to support youth in Kent County. This social justice effort was started...

In case you missed the last article about the results of the Holiday Giving Project, here is a recap. We’d like to say a heartfelt THANK YOU to the numerous members and partners who contributed to the success of ILYA’s Holiday Giving Project in December. So many of you rose...

A heartfelt THANK YOU to the numerous members and partners who contributed to the success of ILYA’s Holiday Giving Project this year. So many of you rose to the challenge of supporting a record number of 112 young adults aging out of foster care and 16 of their children in...

A big THANK YOU to those who have volunteered to support Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA)’s Holiday Giving Project. We are so appreciative. With an unexpected increase in the number of young adults and children in New Castle County and with the expansion to Kent County, we are supporting...

In the Giving Spirit this Holiday? Two ILYA Projects Are Waiting for You! THANK YOU to those members who have already volunteered to support ILYA’s Holiday Giving Project. With an unexpected increase in the number of young adults and children we are supporting in New Castle County plus the expansion...

The holiday time is upon us and Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) is ready to kick off our annual Holiday Giving Project. This important project supports young adults who have aged out of the State’s foster care system with gift boxes and meaningful items so they feel supported and...

The holidays are fast approaching, which means Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) is gearing up to launch our annual Holiday Giving Project very soon. This important project supports young adults who have aged out of the State’s foster care system with tangible, thoughtful items when they do not have...

On October 21st, at the Freedom Plaza outside the Carvel State Office Building in Wilmington, Governor Carney signed into law H.B. 123, which will provide a waiver of tuition, room and board and food for youth who have been in Delaware’s foster care system at the University of Delaware, Delaware...

Just a reminder for those volunteers who have signed up to participate in this year’s ILYA Student Care Package Project. There are two options for the required Volunteer Orientation Zoom Sessions: Sunday, October 17th from 1:00-2:30 pm. Wednesday, October 20th from 6:30-8:00 p.m. Please contact ILYA Student Care Package Project...

When foster care is mentioned, what often comes to mind for many is an image of an innocent baby or toddler, or a sad-looking school-age child. Yet fewer people are aware that teens account for a significant number of those who enter foster care every year. On average, approximately 40%...

Thank you to those who attended the recent Zoom Info Sessions to learn more about how ILYA’s (Independent Living for Young Adults) Student Care Package project supports young adults while they are pursuing their college/secondary education career. Even if you did not attend the info sessions, there’s still time to...

Thank you to those who attended the recent Zoom Information Sessions to learn more about how ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) Student Care Package project supports young adults while they are pursuing their college/secondary education career. Even if you did not attend the info sessions, you can still get...

We are excited about the recent development of a new partnership with the Unitarian Universalist Society of Mill Creek! Their congregation has recently chosen to include ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) as one of their social justice projects that they support during the year. The conversation first started between...

We are excited to share that the ILYA program has new Mission and Vision statements! A small working group was busy over the summer tweaking and refining the words that best capture ILYA’s purpose and goals. The focus of our work remains the same, but now we have official statements...

Just a reminder to those interested in learning about the ILYA Student Care Package project. If you have been tempted to volunteer for this project, but were not really sure what it entailed, two Zoom meetings are scheduled in the coming week so you can find out more. These are...

A festive evening on the Wilmington Riverfront on July 22nd was a long-awaited, in-person celebration to honor ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) graduates from 2020 and 2021. The Docklands Restaurant on the Riverfront provided a beautiful outdoor setting for the over 30 attendees who came together to celebrate and...

Do you remember when you were away at college or in the military and how nice it was to receive a surprise package of goodies from home? Sending such packages to young adults who have aged out of foster care and are continuing their education in post-secondary programs or the...

Some of you may remember what it was like to receive that special care package from home when you were away at college. A box of goodies filled with some of your favorite comfort things – just the boost you needed to help you make it through the next exam...

Thanks to the wonderful generosity of the First U folks who dodged the rain showers to bring us their donations, we were able to collect over 100 items to go into the New Apartment Kits for the youth aging out of foster care. Because of your kind and caring contributions...

Last December, after First U member Peggy Rawheiser passed away, her daughter, Debbie Rawheiser Robertson, started talking with her brothers about how fond their mother had been about the church’s ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) program and its mission of supporting youth aging out of the foster care system....

Youth in Delaware who age out of the foster care system and choose to enter the State’s Independent Living Program until they are 21 can receive assistance in the form of rent vouchers. They must find housing and either attend school or be employed in order to stay in the...

Youth in Delaware who age out of the foster care system and choose to enter the State’s Independent Living Program until they are 21 can receive assistance in the form of rent vouchers. They must find housing and either attend school or be employed in order to stay in the...

The ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) team would like to share a link to a wonderful ABC News story about a 19-year-old in Florida who aged out of the foster care system and was adopted by her former caseworker. Click here to view the video. As the article notes,...

Many of you may know Doyle Dobbins, a member of First U since the 1970’s and a long-time member of the UU Service Committee (UUSC), through which he is dedicated to promoting First U principles and values. His hobby as a bee keeper and honey farmer for over 30 years...

ILYA’s annual Graduation Celebration is coming up in another month or two to honor those young adults in New Castle County who have been in foster care as teens and who are graduating this spring, a big achievement for these youth. Some of the ILYA funds which church members and...

With tax time and graduation season upon us, it is a particularly important – and often anxious – time for many of the youth in our Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) program. It is also an opportunity for First U members to help meet very specific needs of these...

Did you know that ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) has been serving youth and young adults aging out of the foster care system in New Castle County since 2005? This social justice effort was started by members of First U who recognized there was a clear need in the...

We are excited to share that Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) now has an official new program brochure! It provides a history, an overview of ILYA projects, testimonials and ways volunteers and donors can support the youth in the program. Refreshing the old brochure is another step in our...

During this past school year, thirteen volunteers have been participating in the ILYA Student Care Package project led by Deb Griffin and assisted by Pauline Koch. Throughout the school year, these volunteers have sent “care” packages with items such as snacks and other goodies, school supplies, dorm decorations, household supplies,...

When a youth in foster care turns 16 years of age, an Independent Living (IL) coordinator is assigned to assist the youth to prepare for the transition to adulthood. The IL workers are contracted by the State’s Division of Family Services (DFS) from three non-profit agencies in New Castle County:...

How touching it was to open the mail for the Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) program last week and find a check made out to the church designated for ILYA. The gift was from a former beneficiary of our Student Care Package project, Nicole Magnusson! Nicole made the donation...

Thank you to everyone who attended Special Offering Sunday on February 14th! We hope, after learning more about ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) and hearing directly from one of the youth we support, that you feel more connected to this wonderful social justice program at First U. Many, many...

Did you know that the support of the ILYA Program from you, the First U congregation, has assisted young adults as they transition out of foster care and into independent living for the past 16 years? If you want to learn more about the impact of your gifts, then this...

Our February Special Offering is right around the corner on Valentine’s Day, February 14th! It’s the perfect day to celebrate ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) at First U during our “BeLOVEd Community” theme month. Get a sneak peak into the program! Learn more about the impact ILYA is making...

Our Second Sunday Special Offering is an opportunity to celebrate ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) at First U. While Share the Plate will look and feel different this year, you still won’t want to miss the chance to learn about the ways your support benefits young adults who are...

The ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) Holiday Giving Project was a great success thanks to your generosity! Over 120 donors participated, including non-members, and we collected slightly more than $7,500. Thank you to all who donated, shopped, wrapped and worked behind the scenes to make the holidays so special...

When foster care is mentioned, what comes to mind is an image of an innocent baby or toddler, or maybe even a sad-looking school-age child. Fewer folks, however, are aware that teenagers enter foster care. Yet, approximately 40% of children and youth in foster care on average in Delaware are...

While our mission of serving youth aging out of foster care hasn’t changed in the 16 years ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) has been a social justice program at First U, there have been many changes over the years. New projects like New Apartment Kits and Baby Showers were...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) has been serving youth who have aged out of foster care in New Castle County for 16 years. As a social justice program of First U, many volunteers have worked to make this such a successful program. And we couldn’t have done it without...

With COVID-19 closing the Catholic Charities Thrift Center, ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults), our social justice program serving youth who have aged out of foster care, has had to find other resources. Erik Goodlett, project manager, has established a relationship with the Habitat for Humanity ReStore to help out...

Once again, you have made the ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) Holiday Giving a HUGE success! This means that 39 youth who have aged out of foster care and 10 children are going to know there are people “out there” who care about them and want to give them...

The ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) program, an initiative of First Unitarian Church of Wilmington, is a volunteer run collection of projects that augment the offerings of the state sponsored Independent Living Services. Because of Covid, ILYA asked UU members to contribute to it’s Holiday Giving program to help...

As many people rush to get Black Friday deals early this year, ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is also rushing to get things together for youth who have aged out of foster care. We will be preparing gifts for each youth including a gift card with which they can...

In almost every store holiday decorations have appeared. Radio stations are already playing holiday music. And at First U, ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) has kicked off our Holiday Giving project. For those not familiar with this, it’s our way of bringing some holiday cheer to youth who have...

Several events have made 2020 a tough year for many. Are you looking forward to the season of peace, love and joy, even if celebrated socially distanced or virtually? So are youth who have aged out of foster care and are on their own with little support. But they often...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is kicking off our Holiday Giving project this week. You can help us bring some holiday cheer to youth who have aged out of foster care and are now on their own. And in the craziness of 2020, that’s more important than ever. COVID...

You may or may not know that as the team that supports young people aging out of foster care, the ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) team meets at least quarterly to make sure our projects are organized and on schedule to be most effective. We were fortunate to have...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is happy to announce that First U volunteers have been matched up with all the students asking for Student Care Packages. These young people who have just aged out of foster care are starting their academic and technical education with support… thanks to you!...

In this time of uncertainty, divisiveness and turmoil, we see people reaching out and bridging differences, helping one another and trying to bring peace and joy into everyday experiences. Right now, you have an opportunity to bridge some gaps, help and bring peace and joy into a young person’s life....

What if you just aged out of foster care and were a first year student pursuing your higher education and this is what you heard in your head… I’m not sure I can do this. Does anyone really care that I’m scared or struggling? I’m not sure I can keep...

Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) has new graduates that will start their post-secondary education this year. As a program of First Unitarian Church, the success of ILYA graduates who are aging out of the foster care system, is dependent on your support. During normal times, that can be a...

Virus or not, classes are starting for ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) youth going on to college, technical school or the military after graduating high school this year. ILYA’s Student Care Package project was created to support these young people who now are expected to be “on their own”...

On July 16th ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) held its first ever virtual graduation party. It was hosted by Amy Barch along with team mates Barbara Crowell and Pauline Koch. Sophia Elliot from the DE Division of Family Services congratulated the grads and invited them to tell everyone where...

Would you like to come celebrate and see what ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is doing for our 2020 graduates who are aging out of foster care? Since we’re going “virtual” this year, we can open the doors to all who would like to come. You’ll get to hear...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) thanks those who have supported this year’s Graduation Project. We’ve received many donations and shoppers have volunteered to help us make purchases for the backpacks. In addition, our project leader is enlisting the support of her company to fund laptop computers for the grads!...

It’s time to fill the backpacks that will be given to graduating youth who are aging out of foster care. The ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) team usually does the shopping but this year COVID 19 is interfering. Most team members are in the “at risk” group and so...

These are definitely hard times for many people. ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) knows that even people who aren’t themselves having a hard time are contributing to help those who are. So funds can be short. While graduation isn’t an emergency situation, it’s still a huge event for youth...

What do you do when it’s graduation during the COVID 19 pandemic? CELEBRATE! Yes, ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is still going to have a celebration for the 28 young people graduating from high school this year who are aging out of foster care. It will be different and...

Times are certainly strange with the changed procedures and restrictions resulting from the COVID 19 virus. We hope everyone is safe and healthy and appreciate all the essential workers who are keeping things going for us all including our AV team, office staff and Reverend Pam. But some things haven’t...

This past week, one of our ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) team members reached out to ask if there was an Independent Living Coordinator (ILC) who had any clients needing food during this COVID19 crisis. She said she wasn’t leaving home but her daughter was doing shopping for her...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) recently received a note from one of the Independent Living Coordinators hired by the State of Delaware to provide Independent Living Services to young people aging out of foster care. It’s these coordinators that refer the young people to ILYA for our program’s support....

What a wonderful celebration we had last Sunday! ILYA’s (Independent Living for Young Adults) 15th year of service! And how warmly you welcomed our special guests! Everyone from the youth who participated in the service to the Independent Living Coordinators and Delaware’s director of Independent Living all felt the love....

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is celebrating 15 years of support for youth aging out of foster care. We want you to celebrate with the team because you are the ones that make it happen with your generous support. If you come to church on Sunday, you’ll get to...

During the church stewardship campaign, we focus on how we take care of things that are important to us. One great example is the support First U gives ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults). It starts with the volunteers who give their time and talents to make sure the program...

On Sunday, February 9th , it’s “Share the Plate Sunday” highlighting and benefiting ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults). ILYA is the social justice program at First U that supports youth who have aged out of foster care. Youth who have been supported by ILYA will participate in the service...

Thanks to your generosity, the gifts took over at Martha Gessler’s house last week. But she and a few volunteers got them all wrapped up and ready for the Independent Living Coordinators to pick up and deliver to youth who have aged out of foster care. One young woman was...

Because of the generous support from the First U congregation and friends, it’s another successful Holiday Giving this year. The last minute shopping was done with the help of all the financial contributions you gave. And all the gifts you donated and those we purchased have been wrapped up and...

Nobody can beat the holiday helpers at First U in Wilmington! Between folks taking lists or items off of lists and those giving donations, we have covered all 31 people/families. Carolyn Gibson and Martha Gessler have done a fantastic job pulling this all together and just need your last push...

Yikes! There are only 2 weeks left before ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) wraps up the Holiday Giving project for this year… AND WE STILL HAVE QUITE A FEW WISH LISTS NEEDING VOLUNTEERS! A number of people have given cash or checks so we know we’ll be shopping. But...

No, not the official holiday but until the deadline we have to meet to get all of our Holiday Giving wrapped and ready to be packed up and delivered to young people who have aged out of foster care. These young people are out on their own and won’t have...

In almost every store holiday decorations have appeared. Before long, every radio station will be playing holiday music. And at First U, ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) has kicked off our Holiday Giving project. For those not familiar with this, it’s our way of bringing some holiday cheer to...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) received the following letter from one of the youth you have supported through your generous contributions of time and donations. We hope you feel as great about this as we do! To My ILYA Family, I am writing this letter to give my deepest...

A great big THANK YOU from ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) goes out to our 4th, 5th and 6th grade Questers for the fantastic Family Night they held last Friday evening! They made chili, had a caramel apple station and thought up lots of fun games which made for...

We are delighted to report that we have volunteer matches for all of the fifteen young adults who signed up to participate in the ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) Student Care Package project for this academic year! In fact, we had several MORE volunteers than students! This project matches...

Friday, October 11 from 6:30 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Come out for Games and Fun for all ages in Parish Hall! The Questers (4th, 5th & 6th graders) are hosting a Fall Fun Night to benefit ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults). Chili will be served for dinner! Drinks and...

The First U community is so caring and generous that ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) developed a problem. We received more offers from volunteers to send Student Care Packages to youth who aged out of foster care and are continuing their education than we have students. How can we...

For some people who would like to support a student who has aged out of foster care by participating in the student care package project, it’s too much to physically prepare and mail a package. But did you know it can be as easy as putting a gift card in...

Yes, school is back in session and ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is kicking off the Student Care Package project for the 2019/2020 academic year. This project offers support to youth who have aged out of foster care and are continuing their post-high school education. Many of these youth...

In checking the ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) mailbox this week, we found the note card below. Rasheen is a student at the University of Delaware who was helped with tuition by a grant from the New Century Club of Newark obtained by ILYA. While this wasn’t money donated...

A representative group from ILYA attended the YAC (Youth Advisory Council) conference at Delaware State University in Dover last week. This conference organized and run by youth who are in or have aged out of foster care has the tag line “Nothing about us without us”. They advise legislators, social...

It happened! The 2019 Graduation Pizza Party was held last week and as you can see in the pictures, below, a great time was had by all. High school grads, college grads, vocational school grads, foster care alumnae, Sophia Cywinksi, manager of the state’s Independent Living Program, Independent Living Coordinators...

Once again the partnering relationship ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) has established with other organizations has expanded our ability to serve youth who have aged out of foster care. For the third year in a row, we have received a grant from the New Century Club of Newark that...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is wrapping up the preparation of 25 backpacks filled with items youth aging out of foster care can take with them to a dorm or first apartment. Why? These are gifts that you provide to celebrate their graduating from high school. And celebrate we...

Church members and friends have helped ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) meet two-thirds of our goal to provide backpack gifts and a pizza party for young people graduating from high school and aging out of foster care. The backpacks may be the only gifts these young people receive. The...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is working hard to prepare the backpacks we give as gifts to young people graduating from high school and aging out of foster care. They will be distributed at the pizza party we give to celebrate their amazing achievement. “Amazing achievement?” you may be...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is preparing the gift backpacks and arrangements for our Graduation Pizza Party. We have 25 grads this year who have aged out or are aging out of foster care (steadily increasing numbers every year!!). So we’re coming to you for help to make this...

Recently the ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) New Apartment Kit (NAK) team learned of a very touching and generous gift they were receiving. A friend of one of our volunteers is a Catholic woman of the old school who felt giving up candy and wine for Lent wasn’t really...

With so many new members in our congregation who may not know about ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) here’s a little overview. For 13 years this social justice program has provided support to young people who age out of foster care in New Castle County. They have often experienced...

It’s not only seniors that are anxiously and excitedly thinking about the upcoming graduation season. ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) has already started planning for our 2019 Graduation Backpack and Pizza Party. As for many years in the past, we are preparing gift backpacks filled with items the graduate...

At the service on February 10, Sammon, a young woman who had aged out of foster care at age 18 and to whom ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) has been giving support, told her story. She told us how she overcame significant trauma to start moving toward her goals....

First Unitarian Church of Wilmington is the birthplace of the Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) social justice program. Since its beginnings, members and friends of the church have been very generous supporters allowing early volunteers like Betty Wier, Barbara Crowell, Barbara Perry, J. Harry Feldman, Henrietta McKelvey and many...

On Sunday, February 10th, some of the youth supported by ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) will be our guests participating in the service. One young woman will be sharing her experiences and Sophia Cywinski from the Delaware Department of Services for Children, Youth and their Families will also speak...

About 2 years ago ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) started a project to offer support to young women who had aged out of foster care at age 18 and found themselves pregnant. We wanted them to feel valued and supported knowing that another life to manage significantly increased the...

The 2018 ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) Holiday Giving project was a huge success thanks to the members and friends of First U! Together we fulfilled every list including one that asked for a welding machine. The requests ran the gamut from big equipment and a lap top computer,...

With the help of many volunteers who have already taken wish lists or donated to the Holiday Giving Project, ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is getting closer to the finish line. But we still need some help to make it a cheerful holiday for our young people who have...

What a great kick-off we had for the ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) Holiday Giving Project! Many wish lists submitted by the young people who have aged out of foster care were taken by generous volunteers. Shopping for the items these deserving youth wish for is so satisfying and...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is starting our Holiday Giving project and we hope you’ll join us to make another great holiday for young people who have aged out of foster care. For those who aren’t familiar, wish lists are created by these young adults, and will be posted...

First and foremost, ILYA is YOU! You support the team through donations of time and money. ILYA started supporting young people aging out of foster care over 13 years ago and First UU has never faltered. But how it gets done is through the work of a team of dedicated...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) would like to thank the Questers Religious Exploration Group (our 4th, 5th & 6th graders) for the fantastic fun night they held last Friday. It was a fundraiser to benefit the young people aging out of foster care who ILYA services. The games were...

We are delighted to report that we have volunteer matches for all of the twenty-one young adults who signed up to participate in the Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) Student Care Package for this academic year! The ILYA Student Care Package project matches students who have aged out of...

Please join us for a Questers’ Fundraiser on Friday, October 12th at 6:30 p.m. – 8:30 p.m. Our 4th through 6th grade children are planning a fun night to raise money and supplies for ILYA, while enjoying fall games! All ages are welcome. There will be food for sale this night...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is once again lining up volunteers to help students that have aged out of foster care. These youth who are going on to post-secondary education now have decreased support as they are no longer with a foster family. ILYA volunteers give them the boost...

With September upon us, the ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) team is thrilled to report that we have over twenty students hoping to be matched with caring volunteers willing to send treat packages periodically over the course of the academic year. Are you that caring person or family? If...

While many are just starting back to school, ILYA has kicked off our school related activity already. Mid-summer Sue Wilson who has so wonderfully lead the Student Care Package for a number of years handed leadership over to Cathy Butler after doing a great orientation. Cathy picked the ball right...

On August 8th, members of the ILYA team (Independent Living for Young Adults) attended the YAC (Youth Advisory Council) conference at Delaware State University in Dover. Betty Weir and Lori Cowan prepared a wonderful display for our “vendor” table. This is where team members got to talk with many young...

The Delaware Youth Advisory Committee (YAC) is an organization made up of children and youth in foster care or who have aged out of foster care in Delaware. Their tag line is “Nothing about us without us.” They have been consultants to Delaware legislators and non-profit organizations and have been...

You may remember that in January 2017, ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) gave a baby shower to a young woman who was expecting a baby in March. We are so happy to report what a positive impact this has had on the young Mom’s life. The baby shower allowed...

Recently a letter was delivered to Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) which contained a check from Children & Families First. It was a gift in memory of someone who was an unknown supporter of ILYA but who had apparently informed Children & Families First of his belief in what...

The Independent Living for Young Adults Graduation Backpack and Pizza Party project was a fantastic success again this year thanks to the generous support of the First UU congregation. It turned out that we had 17 graduates who came to the West End Neighborhood House for the party. Amy Barch...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) provides grants to young people who have aged out of foster care – most often for apartment security or utility deposits. However, other grants are sometimes provided such as one for registration fees for a community service opportunity. In requesting the grant recently, her...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) is gathering the names of graduates for this year and there are many! We’ve secured a location for the pizza party (at no cost) and are collecting sets of towels/facecloths, pop-up hampers and $25 Target gift cards to put in backpacks. As soon as...

There’s no going back for the young people graduating high school who now age out of foster care. These  students are looking to the future having overcome challenges most of us can’t even imagine. Oftentimes they were shifted through multiple schools adding more instability to the traumatic situations that disrupted...

And we need your help to be ready for them. ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) wants to make sure every young person graduating from high school who is also aging out of foster care gets the recognition they deserve for this great achievement. It’s not easy when you’re shifted...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults which is the social justice program at First U supporting young people who have aged out of foster care) is having another baby shower on June 2nd. We’ve collected much of what this young mother is lacking but there are a few things still...

Last week a group of volunteers who support the Student Care Package project in the ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) program met with some of the Independent Living Coordinators (ILCs) who work closely with the students. For those who don’t know, in Delaware, young people aging out of foster...

Too frequently, young people aging out of foster care have to move abruptly before they have a chance to find an apartment. When that happens, their Independent Living Coordinators often have to physically transport them to emergency housing but sometimes they have to take public transportation. One thing that makes...

For many years ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) has shown support for students continuing their education after aging out of foster care. When volunteers send student “care packages” it not only provides needed or desired items but even more importantly, communicates caring and support. This bit of encouragement may...

ILYA’s partnerships with other organizations are some of our strongest programs. One such partnership is with the New Century Club of Newark. We got in touch with this organization to seek a grant for a young woman who spent her teen years in foster care after suffering serious abuse as...

Although we do not have an organizer for Baby Showers at the moment, we are continuing to collect donations to help support expectant mothers. Here is an article from 2018 with a report on one of our baby showers. We hope that we will be able to find a new...

On Sunday, February 11th, many of you met the wonderful young people who visited our church who ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) has supported. You heard the story of one from the pulpit who told you how your support impacted her. She ended her presentation by saying, “Words cannot...

The offering this Sunday, February 11, will go to ILYA allowing us to continue delivering support to these very deserving youth in your name. We hope everyone will be as generous as they can be. And if you are unable to attend church, feel free to send a check… just...

This Sunday is going to bring a special treat for everyone attending church. A number of youth supported by Independent Living for Young Adults (ILYA) will be visiting to tell about their experience with the support given to them by our program. It will be inspirational to see and hear...

Many people at First U know about ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) and provide amazing support for our projects. But we have many newcomers to our church community who may not be familiar with us. And many members may not be aware of the structure in place to foster...

Next Sunday, our special collection will be for Independent Living for young adults. The offering will be allocated to ILYA to support their work with young people aging out of foster care.

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) has supported young people aging out of foster care for 12 years now. Last year, we also supported 2 infants born to young ILYA clients. In February, we’ll have a baby shower for another infant expected later this winter. Our baby showers not only...

Look at some of the happy faces created by your generosity during ILYA’s (Independent Living for Young Adults) Holiday Giving campaign. These young people (and 30 some others) who have aged out of foster care are having a much better holiday knowing there’s folks out there that care. Thank you...

As promised, here are some pictures of your generosity with ILYA’s Holiday Giving project. Carolyn Gibson and her elves spent over 2 days preparing and wrapping the gifts you provided for our young people who have aged out of foster care. The Independent Living Coordinators for ILYA (Independent Living for...

This month the theme for worship is hope. Reverend Roberta talked about how hope is communicated and how it grows when it’s shared. ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) has experienced such an outpouring of hope for our young people who have aged out of foster care that there are...

As you may know from reading our recent articles, ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) had more young people who have aged out of foster care submitting “wish lists” for Holiday Giving than any previous year. We were worried initially because that’s a lot of wishes to address but you...

But this holiday season you have the opportunity to create a very warm feeling for a young person who has aged out of foster care. Please sign up to help ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) with their Holiday Giving project. It works like this… Young people who have aged...

No, not the official holiday but the deadline we have to get all of our ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) Holiday Giving wrapped and delivered to young people who have aged out of foster care. These young people are out on their own and won’t have much of a...

ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) got a last minute notification that 2 additional students are requesting Student Care Packages. So we’re looking for 2 more volunteers willing to send small packages to a student 5 times during the school year. These students are seeking the emotional support of someone...

Once again volunteers have made it possible to have every new student referral we received to receive Student Care Packages for this school year. Our last minute referrals were matched up! Independent Living for Young Adults matches up these volunteers who provide encouragement and support to the college freshmen who have...

Did you know that receiving homemade cookies and /or tasty snacks sends a strong message to a student facing college for the first time? Young people aging out of foster care don’t get the same “love packages” many of our children do when they head off to school. ILYA (Independent...

Yes, a new school year has begun and that means ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) will need volunteers to send Student Care Packages to young adults continuing their education after aging out of foster care. It can be scary starting college as a freshman and having no family support...

The 2017 ILYA (Independent Living for Young Adults) Graduation Pizza Party was a huge success. Eleven graduates and their Independent Living Coordinators were able to attend (work and class schedules prevented others from joining in) and had a great time celebrating their huge achievement. Conversation was lively and Café Verdi...